Since I reported on my life, and it appears one or two people are very eager to read about it 
One more than any other *snigger*Â Maybe he’s wanting my take on saturday night, who knows! Appears he already knows most of it but hey-ho!!
Anyway on with the update… Got my usual Friday dinner time text from Phil asing if I was going to football, and that him and Helen were skint, thus not going to the pub, only to text back an hour later, and say Fee was making them go to the pub, and did I fancy joining. Typically for a Friday afternoon this summer, it was bloody raining, thus making football that little bit more ermm interesting :lol: For once me and Phil were on different sides, but it didnt stop some of the old magic coming to the fore! Scored one or two funky goals, with the odd fancy-dan flick thrown in :lol: Meatball was on form again, and me and him just ended up sliding all over the pitch. So much so that even with tracky bottoms on, I still ended up with Astro-Turf burns on my knees 
Nipped home piss wet through, and quickly got changed and then headed over to the Rushley to go and meet Phil, Helen, Fee and young Tibbzy. Had a decent night, altho Helen dissapeared for best part of an hour to catch up with Nab and some of his mates, which meant we were left with Troy and Stacey joining us! Oh the joys :lol: Headed off home bout half 10 cos I couldnt keep my eyes open 
Decided to have a lie in saturday, as I wasn’t feeling 100% and so when I finally felt like getting up I messed about round the house for a bit, before agreeing to go out round Mansfield later that night. Later in the afternoon I headed over to my mum and dads for a bit, so I could nip into the shower, and my Grandma and Grandad were over there, and was nice to see them. After they’d gone our Owen and Lewi came over, as our Owen was staying at my mum and dads that night. Got ready and met Bagi, Wayniac and Daz in the Swan, and then a load of other people came along. From there we headed down to 53 for a drink, before ending back up in the Swan :? Daz seemed to be hyper and was beginning to annoy me a little, and that wasn’t helped by the 3 of them thinking drinking Jagermeister and Red Bull all night was a good idea *rollseyes* Anyway from the Swan we headed over to Yates’s. Was pressured into having a beer, so opted for a Lager Shandy, as I still wasn’t feeling all that good. After Yates’s we headed over to Wetherspoons, and met up with Pete, and Carla came in too. Bagi, Daz and Wayniac were smashed by this point. From there we went into the hell whole that is the 70’s bar or something thats opened up below QI. I hated it in there, and the music if I’m honest, and didnt enjoy it in there one bit.
Against mine and Wayniacs wishes we ended up in Chicago, and not long later the night soured completley. Daz and Bagi though it be a mint idea to go to the DJ and give him an announcement *cunts* turned out they told him basically it was my 28th birthday and that I’d come out of the closet, to which he decided to announce to the pub! Marvelous! Then he started playing “I want to break free” “Gaybar” And It’s raining men” and then the message appeared on the tellies!! This pissed me off something rotten, and it may have been a good joke in their pissed up little minds, but not something I saw the funny side of!
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Avoid derogatory oral statements (libel). Making false statements about someone else to a third party that cause harm to that person’s reputation is grounds for a defamation of character suit. Avoid saying anything untrue about anyone else to ensure you don’t inadvertently cross the line.
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Stay away from derogatory written statements (slander). Just like libel, making false written statements, or slander, against someone else in a way that causes them damage can be grounds for a defamation of character claim.
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Keep it to yourself. Defamation of character only results when the harmful statements are made to a third party. You can think all the bad thoughts you want, but it’s just good practice to keep them to yourself.
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Understand the law. The best way to avoid a defamation of character lawsuit is to understand what’s need to prove defamation. Generally, for someone to make a successful defamation of character claim, they must show that there was a false statement of fact, this statement was conveyed to a third party and the statement was understood to be about them and resulted in harm to their reputation. In the case of a public figure, actual malice must also be proved.
Anyway I had had enough with their stupid antics, and my battery had all but died, so I fucked off home. Was home by half 10. Woke up bout half 11 sunday morning, and headed over to my mum and dads for some dinner. My gums were sore, and giving me a bit of grief, specially through dinner, and it turned out to be pretty much the last thing I was to eat for a few days :( Chilled out sunday afternoon, as I was feeling knackered, and then headed to bed to watch Bad Boys 2 on DVD, till I fell asleep. Only problem was even tho I’d taken paracetamol, my gums were giving me a numb sort of pain. Last time I’d turned over and checked the clock it was about 4am
Monday at work was tiresome, being as tired as I was. Decided against going to the gym, as I felt I’d have done more harm than good. Monday night was another sleepless affair, altho I ended up watching Lord of the Rings - The Two Towers and then The Return of The King, one after the other, which meant they finished bout half 11
Tuesday was a bad bad day. I knicked my gum on something, and noticed that it started bleeding. I think we’ve all done something like that before if you’ve over brushed or something, and just nicked your gum, but it stops bleeding after a bit. Anyway it didnt really stop ALL DAY! Which got quite worrying around dinner time. I’d managed to change my dentist appointment from Monday 21st to this coming Friday, but Wendy got quite worried as I seemed to be losing all the colour in my face. The blood had started clotting at the back of my tooth, and it felt horrible :( After speaking to the emergency dentist on the phone, she reccommended some Mouth Wash and Neurofen, which should help. Anyway it still didnt stop, so Wendy rang my dentists and said “When I mean his gums are bleeding, I mean litterally blood is pouring out” and managed to get me a spot later that evening! Finished everything I had to do, and then headed over to Kirkby. I was sat in the waiting room, and my mouth looked like I’d been in the latest UFC Middleweight championship match HAHAHA. Anyway after a deep clean, which hurt like hell in parts, the bleeding seemed to stop, but she said that having gotten under the gums, I could expect a little bleeding for the next 2/3 days. I was able to the have a drink atleast
Yesterday I went to the gym, and we worked on the legs, as whilst I’d been “Skiving” John had already worked on his chest, shoulders and back! Maybe the fact he goes twice a day would be one reason :lol: Anyway once I’d gotten back from the gym, and had a bath, my mum rang me to remind me that it was my Grandmothers birthday! I’d not entirely forgotten, as I knew it was around then. Nipped to Tesco to buy a card and some flowers, and went round to see my grandma. Had a lovely bit of cake, and ended up coming home with 3 tins of soup, and some fruit buns
